Men have a reputation of keeping tabs on the moves of their favorite sports teams . . . more than the women they are dating. But that's not always true.
An online influencer has noticed that some men are secretly keeping "notes" on the women they're seeing on their phones . . . sometimes IN the "Notes" app.
They're listing things like: Favorite snacks . . . wine preferences . . . favorite clothing stores . . . clothing sizes . . . go-to fast food orders . . . pizza toppings . . . coffee orders . . . favorite flowers . . . books they're reading . . . and little details about the hobbies they're invested in right now.
Naturally, it's most common among men who are dating, or are earlier in their relationships. But apparently even men with long-time partners are also making notes to remember the latest subtle details, and things their partners are passionate about.
The idea is that many men ARE listening . . . because, as one guy put it, quote, "Of course. Because if we're not paying attention, someone else is." And these "manuals" can keep their partners feeling seen, heard, and spoiled.