The Whisper app can be a cesspool of garbage or helpful and this time it was. They say "hindsight is 20/20" and when you’re in a relationship it's hard to see what’s bad about your situation - until things go spectacularly wrong.
- “I should have known he was a sociopath when he would make me watch scary movies until I cried and screamed. He was fascinated by fear because he can’t feel it.”
- “I broke it off with him. I should have done it earlier when I started picking up on the red flags. Lots of girlfriends, always busy, ignoring me, blaming me for things. I feel like a fool.”
- “My ex said to me, ‘why don’t you just get pregnant already so I can settle down?’ Big red flag. Next day I found out he was cheating on me.”
- “Take it as a big red flag if he literally stands up during the brunch date to look around you because he thinks he sees his ex.”
- “Another big red flag…my boyfriend told me he didn’t want me playing video games because you can chat with other people. I have given him no reason to be jealous. He just is. It’s getting ridiculous.”
- “Red flag: When a guy calls his ex ‘psycho; or ‘crazy.’”
- “if something is too good to be true, nine times out of ten it is too good to be true. I should have went with my gut when it said something wasn’t right.”
- “Should have known he was a d-bag when he said to keep our relationship a secret. Red flag ignored. My bad.”
- “It should have been a red flag when my ex’s pet name for me was ‘mom.’”
- “I should have known it was a red flag when he said ‘baby you can’t hurt me,’ instead of ‘I trust you,’ or ‘won’t.’”
- “In all these years of experience. I finally know it’s a big red flag when she says ‘he’s just a close friend.’”
- “Every time a guy says ‘I’m not like the rest,’ that should be a big warning sign that they ARE in fact just like the rest.”
- “Our anniversary being on Friday the 13th should have been my first red flag.”